Relationships nowadays look like similar to changing the diapers of a baby.
People are more interested in changing their partners, faster than they change clothes.
Call it, changing times, or changing people, the influence of social media, dating apps; but this is the fact and no one disagree with it.
We have adjusted to the practice of the world, and as we swing in the same direction as the world does. But if you cannot foster or support one relationship, there is no way that you are going to nurture the next one.
Just a small point, I would like to mention here. I am not talking about abusive relationships, where one of the partners suffers as a victim and the other one is the accused. In this case, the victim is bound to move on.
These cases are not been considered as I talk about people going into multiple relationships.
There are countless studies on this subject and every author has their different opinion about this subject. Because every author and research team; has its own way to look at the subject and own way to give their opinion about relationships.
Let’s See These Practical Points
Positive Psychology Plays A Vital Role In Relationships
Positive psychology plays a very important role in a healthy relationship. Positive emotions and affection are very important in one’s relationship. In a long-lasting relationship, partners work through their misunderstandings and conflicts.
They resolve them out by communicating respectfully and forgiving mistakes of each other. Couples, who do this, tend to gain high levels of satisfaction in their relationship and they take their relationship to the next level.
This is one aspect; the other is the perseverance and endurance to work at your relationship, to make sure a deeper bonding with each other. If there is unconditional love between the partners, both of them will always work towards sharing a strong and positive.
No One Is Perfect – And That Includes You And Your Partner Too
We as human beings are not perfect. No one is. We need to understand and accept that. Once we accept that, it would be easier to not expect perfection in our partner.
There might be times when some behavior of our partner might irritate us, our partner might have some weaknesses that might be hard for us to accept.
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But if we really love them, we will have to deal with that. We need to keep a positive attitude towards these issues. At any point, we can’t insult or humiliate them.
That’s not love, if we humiliate and insult them. And if we can’t do that, one thing is for sure that we don’t love them.
How can I humiliate someone, I love? Is this possible? No, it is not!
Whatever the issue is, we need to wait for the right time to talk about it with our partner. And we must not be judgmental while discussing those issues with our partner.
That will make sure that our partner understands our points with an open mind.
Dump The Temptation
This new, era/time/phase/generation (call it whatever you want) has got everything easy to get and to leave.
Be it a hobby, studies, friends, parents, or relationships. No second thought is required for anyone before they leave one and jump into another.
People nowadays are tempted with “fillers”. These fillers are better known as “Gap – Fillers”, always enter in your life at the most worse time.
When as a friend or co-worker they should give you the right advice; at the time, when your relationship is not doing good, they actually work as a replacement of your partner.
They have that every working idea, that can make your relationship broken and some great time tested tips to believe them, leave your partner, and move on with them, at least for a week ( it can be for a couple of days too).
These Gap-fillers have all the good talks and enough motivation to de-motivate you from the present relationship so that they can take due advantage of your weakness.
We need to stay away from these kinds of people if we truly love our partner.
However, if we truly analyze, we would realize that if we cannot live or tolerate one partner, there is no assurance that we can tolerate any other partner.
The initial days of a new relationship may look the best, yet no one can tell that the same relationship can be our most horrible one.
We need to give time not only to our partner but also to ourselves, to figure out whether it’s truly over or still it can work out with some serious efforts and will from both the end.
And yes, it has to be genuine and no false obligations on each other.
Anyone can go and make multiple relationships, but people with character make one relationship, that lasts long.
And that’s what Love is all about. Working together and Staying together, with Love & Peace.
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Stay Healthy & Stay Happy!