What signs prove that a man is in love with you?
You have been in a relationship for some time, or you have just met him, but you already like it. You feel that you are attracted to him and that you fall in love.
Yet you have the impression that, for his part, he is rather distant. He doesn’t seem interested in you, or at least he doesn’t show it to you. Despite his strange behavior, you want to be with him.
But, something is blocking you: you are afraid that you will not like him as much as you like. You fear being rejected and do not know how to raise the subject with him.
Don’t be afraid! All this is normal. Remember that women communicate their feelings much more easily than men. For them, their actions are much more important than their words.
In general, they prefer to show you their interest or love by tender gestures and small attentions. For example, rather than telling you that they love you, they will introduce you to their close friends.
For them, it is much more important to prove one’s love than to say, “I love you.” How then to recognize the signs of a man in love in secret? How does a man show his feelings? What behavior does a man who hides his feelings behave?
That is what we are going to reveal to you in this text. Indeed, we will help you to decipher the behavior of a man in love who hides it. Here, then, are the signs of a man who hides his feelings:
How To Identify A Man Who Keeps His Feelings Hidden For You
1. When he speaks to you, he leans towards you
He can’t help but do that! Indeed, the fact that he is attracted to you subconsciously pushes him to seek intimacy. As a result, when he speaks to you, he looks you directly in the eye and instinctively lean towards you.
Similarly, he will lower his voice so that you are also forced to bend over to hear him. He does not do it on purpose, but, quite simply, when he is with you, he loses control of his body: he will, for example, push a lock of hair or touch your shoulder.
2. When he is with you, he is never accompanied by other women
When you talk with him, you get the impression that there are no single women among his friends or acquaintances. If you start the subject, he will answer briefly. Yet, he will never talk about this on his own.
He doesn’t want to give you the impression that you have competition, and if he has a single woman around him, he will always be careful to point out that she is only a friend.
3. He never refuses any of your proposals
Whatever you want to do, he is ready to do with you. Whatever idea you have (go to the cinema or parachute), he will do everything to participate. Even if his schedule is overloaded, he will manage to free up a niche for the activity of your choice.
He wants to be present at all costs, which is the attitude of a man in love in secret.
4. He tries to impress you
All you need is him. At least according to this man. Are you afraid? It will protect you. Do you have to wear heavy cartons? It will do it for you. Do you have to take out the trash? Don’t worry; he’s here to do it!
In this way, he tries to show you his qualities, strengths, and willingness to work with you to make your life easier. He wants, in this way, to give you the impression that he is indispensable and that you can count on him in any situation.
This is THE sign of a man in love who does not deceive!
5. He makes it clear to you that he is single
He will often talk about this. He will tell you that he is looking for a special woman, waiting for his soul mate, or that his heart is ready to love. By saying that, he’s probably going to give you a look that speaks volumes.
If a woman approaches him when you are together, he will discuss with her until the moment when he will see a reaction from you. If he sees a little jealousy in your behavior, it’s won!
Once he gets that reaction, he’s going to turn the other woman away kindly. And there, you will realize that he was just trying to get your attention. You will not be able to stop yourself from thinking: “it is the behavior of a man who seduces”!
6. He makes fun of other men in your life
This is what he prefers to do: he seeks to show you that he is the perfect man for you and that others do not get to his ankle. But beware! This behavior can be double-edged.
Indeed, if he mocks the other men in your life by joking and in a really funny way, so give it a chance!
On the other hand, if he belittles them in a nasty and degrading way, avoid it. This kind of man has an ego problem, and if you get into a relationship with him, he will seek that you boost his ego.
7. When you talk about another man, he becomes silent
If you are interested in another man in your life, he will listen to you talk about him but will not make any comment. However, his attitude will leave no doubt: he does not like the idea that someone else pleases you.
As you talk about him, he’s going to step back because he’s going to feel hurt: he’ll feel like he’s lost his chance with you. You can always use this topic to test it: if it reacts this way when you talk about another, then you hold it!
8. His body language is quite open
You have his full attention, and it shows. Men, in general, like to look around to see if anything is interesting. If he looks you straight in the eye when he speaks to you, it means that he has already found what interests him.
In addition, if he feels good with you, he will tend to gesture a lot. He will talk with his hands and describe certain situations to you visually.
Here, again, is typical behavior for a man in love.
9. He plays half-fig half-grape
One day he will be 100% present, you give hundreds of compliments and offer you to spend more time together; another, it will practically disappear. The explanation for this kind of behavior is rather simple.
He is in love with you but is not ready to reveal it. Maybe he’s not sure about your feelings, or he’s afraid of going too fast? At one point, he lets himself go and enjoys the present moment; then, to another, he withdraws for fear of being rejected and hurt.
10. He mimics your movements
When you are attracted to someone, you unconsciously imitate their actions because you want to be like them.
To check if he is in love with you, you can do a small test. The next time you see each other, sit back when you talk to him. If he is interested in you, he will copy your attitude.
11. When he is with you, he seems nervous
When he speaks to you, he seems to lose his words. When he explains something to you, he plays with his hair. It seems that ants roam the entirety of his body so much he moves on his chair!
His attitude is this: he churns too much to hide what he wants to talk about. He is tempted to tell you that you like him, but something prevents him from doing so. He also wants to look at his best and is afraid that you will not find him attractive.
12. He teases you and jokes about the possibility of being in a relationship with you
Men like to tease and be fascinated. This allows them to create an intimacy and a strong bond without all the seriousness of a romantic relationship. For them, it is a way to include you in a private and secret group whose language only two people know.
A man who loves you will surely give you a nickname and joke about being in a relationship with you. It’s a test: he’s trying to see how you’re going to react to this idea.
These signs of a man in love are rather easy to decipher. If you spot this behavior in the person you like, do not hesitate! Tell him how you feel and trust us: he will respond with the same!
On the other hand, if he does not show this attitude, there is little chance that he will be interested in a relationship with you. In this case, you have two choices: either you abandon the idea of being with him (but it could break your heart), or you take your courage with both hands and ask him directly.
If he answers in the negative, at least you know where you stand. But, who knows? Perhaps he will surprise you by admitting to you that he is attracted to you…