6 Ultimate Reasons To Continue Dreaming About Love
Dating amorous encounters can quickly become annoying.
If you’ve been looking for love for some time, without success, you might start to feel hopeless.
But giving up love is not a good option, especially if it’s something important to you!
Going out and meeting people isn’t that easy these days.
It is perhaps a bit of an exaggeration to say that people who are courting no longer exist, but let’s be realistic!
Even with all the options that are supposed to make dating more accessible and more natural, it has had the opposite effect: it has become more challenging to connect and find love.
Many people, therefore, think that love is not or more for them.
But, through my journey, I discovered things that made me realize that one should not give up so easily.
Things have helped to make my path to love less complicated.
The search for love is an exciting adventure.
You can meet new people, go out and have fun dates, and maybe, find the love of your life.
But meetings can also be a huge disappointment, and there are times when travel is more frustrating than fun, especially as you get older.
To find a good relationship, you need to be prepared to put your own money into it.
But what should you do when you feel that you are losing faith in love?
Here are six reasons why you shouldn’t give up this one.
Here Are 6 Ultimate Reasons To Continue Dreaming About Love
1. Give Yourself Time To Mature.
You may be used to getting what you want when you want it, but I’m sorry to tell you: love doesn’t work that way.
Finding it requires a ton of patience, and it’s not easy.
When you were in your twenties, you might fall in love easily. But how did it work for you? Not very well, I guess, if you read these lines.
The more time passes, the more selective you will be about the people you want to spend time with and, yes, okay, it will reduce your choices, but it will reduce disappointments too.
You may be divorced and a little reluctant to open your heart and trust someone new.
But if you focus on the destination, you’ll miss out on a lot of other things!
Besides, when it comes to love, there is no “destination.”
Once you are in a relationship, you have new challenges and new experiences to present.
Working on yourself doesn’t stop when you’re in a relationship, and being in a relationship isn’t necessarily the end goal.
So enjoy things as they are at the moment, trust.
If you continue to be the best possible version of yourself, you will end up “rewarded.”
As for your solo time, it should be used to learn who you are and grow through every experience you go through.
It’s better than just giving up love.
2. Love Teaches Lessons.
Even if an appointment doesn’t go the way you wanted or hoped, you can still learn something from every person you meet.
You don’t need to learn anything that changes your life! It can be the discovery of a new restaurant or a new way of looking at things.
If you can take advantage of these appointments to learn more about the person and life and not focus on the potential outcome, you will enjoy the experience much more.
Of course, going through another failed relationship can be a frustrating and depressing experience but remember that timing is everything.
Just because this love is over doesn’t mean it’s all to be forgotten.
So please, next time, instead of treating your failed relationships as a waste of time, make a list of everything you’ve learned through them.
You may have learned to talk about your feelings and be vulnerable with someone else, and perhaps you have known that appearance is not everything.
If the relationship was toxic, you might have learned that you are stronger than you think. Perhaps you have known what you no longer want and will no longer tolerate in your future relationships.
Take the lessons that love gives you and cherish them.
3. What’s Worth It Is Rarely Easy To Get.
The best things in life, the ones that make you feel accomplished, proud of yourself, and inspire you to do better, are always hard to get.
Get a degree, run long distances, stay fit or lose weight, break a bad habit, learn something new like scuba diving or how to speak another language… These are all things that take time to accomplish.
But you feel so satisfied when you finish this challenge!
The same goes for finding the right relationship.
Deciding to wait for someone who fills you up instead of going out with the first person because you feel alone takes courage and strength.
Just as it takes courage to break up with someone you love but is ultimately destructive for you, it takes effort to be patient, but you will be happy with the result.
4. Time To Take Care Of Yourself.
How do you think it’s possible to find the love of your life if you don’t love yourself?
If you don’t like each other, you won’t be able to love others, and you won’t maintain a relationship with anyone.
And for some people, when you have no one to love, it can make you feel bad about yourself and lose your self-esteem.
This is why loving someone is so crucial and why you should not give up love so easily.
You need to work on yourself and develop emotional stability, self-confidence, and communication skills so you can engage and connect with other people.
Once you’ve established these elements, you’ll feel better about yourself, and you won’t lose hope of finding someone worth your time.
It won’t be an easy journey to become the person you want to be, but it will be worth it once you get there.
5. You Only Need One Person To Find The Right Person.
Every relationship or encounter that “fails” brings you one step closer to your Prince Charming.
You may need to kiss a few frogs to reach it, but you’ll learn more about what you like and what you don’t.
Your date last Friday sucked, and you’ll never see that person again, but you know what?
The next meeting could be the last. It could be the moment when you feel alchemy like no other.
It only takes one person to steal your heart and change your world.
It may take work to open you up to love again, but romance can appear in places you can’t even imagine.
Feelings can develop unexpectedly.
Something that comes back when you listen to people is the love stories in which the people involved found their half unexpectedly.
Many people who had renounced love were surprised and discovered that they could fall in love again.
The human heart, even if damaged, can still start beating again under the right circumstances.
Don’t become your worst enemy.
It is so easy to belittle when nothing in the love department happens.
But don’t be so yourself for that reason.
Only when you see yourself as complete and complete by yourself will you be ready for a partner.
When we focus on being the best version of ourselves, when we don’t try to force love, that’s often where it finds us.
But remember, always, that you are worthy of love.
6. Maybe You’re Too picky, Or You’re Always Making The Same Mistakes.
Time passes, and you become more and more straddle the criteria that the elected official of your heart will have to meet.
There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want (or don’t want anymore), but there’s a difference between being selective and too picky.
If you’re still trying to find this mythical version of love, this fantasy version to the extreme of the perfect man or woman, you’ll be disappointed.
You will swear that you give up love because it does not exist.
And indeed, if your criteria are not relevant, you may end up looking for a long time…
Don’t hesitate to relax your expectations.
I’m not saying you have to “sell” your criteria, but maybe consider your list of grievances again.
If it has elements such as “he/she will earn as much per year,” “his favorite color must be blue,” “he must be at least 1m80 and have green eyes”, “she must have a big chest,” let me tell you that you are getting in the way.
Release those expectations!
Don’t try to get EXACTLY what you want and focus on more down-to-earth aspects.
He/she speaks without fear; we will have things in common, he/she will make me laugh, etc.
His work, appearance, place where he/she lives, and none of this matter if you like it.
Make sure you feel sufficient and accomplished as a person before you look for something. This will allow you to start a relationship on a sound basis.
Resilience is the key to finding love.
Enjoy the journey and focus on yourself and your personal growth, absorb the lessons that each relationship will teach.
Finding love can be difficult, but don’t be discouraged: no one is destined to be alone forever unless you genuinely believe it.